CHOOSE
What is fresh? What is in season? What are we cooking, and for whom?
You learned by watching. How much cumin went into the pan. When the mustard seeds were ready. What to cook when someone wasn’t feeling well. Which foods felt right at different times of the year.
But much of what stayed with me wasn’t taught as a system. It was simply part of everyday life.
As I grew older, I became curious about the understanding behind those things: the relationship between food, digestion, season, constitution and how we feel. And how all this connects to our Doshas.
Today I bring some of that understanding into cooking experiences and retreats. Not as a prescription for how someone should eat, but as another way to become curious about what nourishes us.
Cooking asks us to notice. The ingredients, the season, the person we are cooking for, and what is happening in the pan.
What is fresh? What is in season? What are we cooking, and for whom?
Washing, chopping, grinding and preparing brings us into direct contact with the food.
Spices change in the pan. Seeds begin to crackle. An aroma tells us something before a timer does.
A little more sour. Something warming. Perhaps nothing more at all. We taste and respond.
Food changes again when it is placed in the middle of a table and eaten with other people.
My grandmother, Tulsi Bai, practised Ayurveda. But as a child, I didn’t think of what happened around her as a practice or a philosophy.
It was simply part of life.
Food changed with the season. Spices had a purpose beyond flavour. If someone wasn’t feeling well, what they ate might change. And much of the cooking happened without measuring anything.
I think that is why I still prefer to cook this way. I use recipes, but I also watch, smell, taste and adjust.
As I grew older, I became more curious about the understanding behind what I had grown up around.
I don’t bring Ayurveda into brid9e as a set of rules about how someone should live or eat. I bring some of its attention to food, digestion, season and everyday life and a way of cooking that has travelled with me for a long time.
You can come with a question, a feeling, a pattern you keep meeting or simply with the sense that something needs attention.